What Will My Husband Think if I Use A Vibrator?

This is an incredibly common question in my practice. Even though most women who are committed to getting their vagina “in shape” for the menopausal years, leave the office with a vibrator to help with vaginal health, they worry if their husbands will be upset. I have heard terrible worries from these women…even worrying that their husbands will call them a slut! This just does not happen. Most women come back into the office and report that their husbands or intimate partners were thrilled to know that they were working at improving their sex life. Many of them were thrilled to add a new twist to their lovemaking. After thirty to fifty years with the same partner, things are likely to get a little boring. Adding something new is exciting! The key is to talk about the problems associated with aging and change your behavior to accommodate this change. You will probably be pleasantly surprised at his response.